I think one of the good phrase to describe self control is “Yes, I can do what I want.”

When it comes to self control, you’re responsible for yourself, you can’t control anyone else, you can’t control anyone else’s body, you can’t control their minds. And at the end of the day, if you’re looking for a better society, start with yourself. Gandhi said this, “If you want to see a change in the world, start by changing yourself first.“